How to date a girl
How to Ask a Girl Out | 3 Tips to Make Her Say Yes (July 2019).
A date is always an exciting event, both at the very beginning of an acquaintance, when the relationship is still in its infancy, and for established couples who have decided to diversify their weekdays with a romantic evening. And sometimes you have to be quite brave and resourceful in order to invite a girl for a date and not hear refusal.
First, figure out where you will lead the girl. Of course, you can just offer to meet, and there let your chosen one choose where to go, but, as a rule, girls are waiting for the initiative from a young man, especially if your relationship is just beginning to develop. In the warm season, you can invite the lady of the heart for a walk in picturesque places - in each city there are parks or squares, in the cold season, the walk must include a cafe, otherwise the girl will be cold to you in every sense of the word. It would be nice to find out about the girl's hobbies and invite her to where she will definitely like - the stadium, where you can look on the rollers, the cat show, the literary evening. If you decide to go to the cinema, leave time for communication after watching the movie, because in the cinema itself you can hardly do it.
Also immediately worth thinking about the day and time when you would like to meet with a girl. A lady is much more willing to agree on a specific offer to go to a dolphinarium at five o'clock in the evening than on an abstract offer to go somewhere the other day. If the girl regrets to tell you that she cannot at the time you have indicated, then she will need to think about options.
Of course, to invite a girl for a date is best in a one-on-one conversation, but not every young man can decide on such a brave deed. Therefore, invite as you prefer - by phone, or writing a message in a social network. Of course, you need to be sure that the girl regularly uses social networks and will have time to read your letter. Romantics can use real paper letters or notes.
When inviting a girl for a date, remember such a simple psychological device: do not use the “not” particle in the sentence. So, you should not say, “Would you like to meet me tomorrow at four?”, But “Let's see each other tomorrow at four.” With this formulation, your chances for a positive response increase.