Tip 1: How to meet the man of your dreams and marry him
How Does God Tell You Who to Marry? (Is He/She "The One"?) (July 2019).
In their youth, almost all the girls are confident that each of them will be enough for the handsome prince. Over the years, confidence disappears. But if you still have the desire to meet the man of your dreams and marry him, you will have to make some effort to this.
Remove the rose-colored glasses and get rid of youthful maximalism. Make yourself see the truth in the eyes and understand that you may not meet a man who would exactly match the image that you have planned for yourself. But this does not mean that you will be left without a husband.
You will have to choose from those who best fit your ideas about the ideal, and then "bring" the winner of this competition to your benchmark. Do not wait for favors from nature. In this sense, a woman can carry out painstaking selection work and literally “grow” her husband, slightly adjusting his behavior and appearance.
Agree that neither the color of the eyes, nor the growth does not guarantee family happiness. Therefore, external signs should not be contained in the list of requirements that you make to your future husband. Select a list of those qualities that must be inherent in him without fail: kindness, decency, sense of humor, success, purposefulness. However, each girl will have their own list.
Selecting only the basic indicators, you will significantly expand the range of possible candidates. After that, you should look around and look at the familiar bachelors with new eyes. It is quite possible that you will be surprised to find several suitable candidates from those with whom you have known each other for a long time and see you every day - study or work together.
The ideal man for you should share your hobbies. Therefore, it is logical to look for it in those places where you spend your free time. If you are a passionate lover of a healthy lifestyle, take a closer look at those who go with you to the gym or swimming pool, do skiing or orienteering. In the case when you like traveling and hiking, get acquainted with those guys who love tourism and long trips.
And remember that young people are also in search and are looking at girls, hoping to meet the woman of their dreams and marry her. Be yourself attractive, smart and interesting, so that your prince could not pass by without noticing you.
Tip 2: How to meet the guy of your dreams
What girl does not torment the question, where to get acquainted with the best, most gentle and loving young man? Where are the perfect guys? To answer this question, you must first focus your inner vision on your personal ideal, and only then go in search of it.
"The guy of my dreams " is always an animal of an unknown breed. Some, like rare fish, are immersed in the world of science. Their habitat is educational institutions for gifted children and scientific conferences for young scientists. Others, like a gang of cockroaches, gather at the entrance every evening. Still others, gentle hamsters, sit at home in an embrace with a computer and wait for the beautiful stranger to lure them out of the mink. So, first of all, the girl should deal with her own dream, and then figure out in what habitat this wonderful subject can be found.
Kozma Prutkov said: "The best for everyone is what he wants to." If a girl has a hunt for sports, then it is logical to assume that the guy of her dreams has similar interests, their rhythm of life coincides. The same with art, social life, bright hobbies, without which the dreamy maiden does not think about her life. It is logical to assume that she needs to look for a guy among like-minded people. If the social circle is too small, you need to expand it.
If a girl lives a normal, measured life: she goes shopping, watches advertised films, hangs out in popular networks, then she should think about what she can offer a future guy. If she only has a beautiful appearance in her assets, a balanced character and an increased houseiness, then her dream boyfriend should be a simple and kind person, focused on long-term, stable relationships. It can be found on the Internet, in the thematic communities (but there is a risk of falling into an unpleasant adventure), or you can ask relatives or friends to find a friend.
Many choose the guy of their dreams in appearance. Others are looking for parental qualities: gentleness, tenderness, care. The first is not concerned about personal happiness, but a positive assessment of others. The second does not want to grow up. You need to understand that the best guy is a person you can trust. It does not matter if he is shorter or too shy to entertain others.
- Article "Idealization of a partner in premarital relations." at 2019