Tip 1: How to safely engage in anal sex
How to Have Anal Sex (May 2019).
Anal sex is one of the ways to get pleasure. It is quite popular in many countries, but it is not customary to speak openly about it. But it is no secret that many couples practice it and even love it. Correct movements can bring pleasure to both partners, you just need to be careful.
For anal sex you need to prepare. A woman will feel much more confident if she goes to the toilet before the process. You can also do a small enema, but this is not necessary.
Anal opening very narrow. Before anal sex, you need to expand it. This should be done very gently and gently with the help of fingers or tongue. To make the girl completely relaxed, take some time for the preliminary caresses. Usually she is much easier to agree on anal, if before that she managed to get an orgasm several times more familiar ways.
Use a large amount of special anal lubricant. You can buy it at any pharmacy or sex shop. It has a special effect that relieves pain and helps slip. Apply this product on your fingers and gradually start to put them inside.
Pain will not be if the girl relaxed. First, with one finger, teach her to relax, then add a second and third. The gradual movements - a guarantee of pleasant sensations. Do not do anything harshly so as not to scare your partner.
You can enter the penis only when the passive side is completely ready. First dive 1 cm and freeze. Gradually go a little deeper and stop again. Everything should be very slow and accurate. Progressive movements can be started only when you feel the full relaxation of the partner.
It is necessary to agree in advance that if there are any unpleasant feelings, everything will immediately stop. This will help tune in emotionally. But it is worth remembering that during the first anal sex often there are desires to go to the toilet. This is a false feeling that comes from the habit. The chance of getting a bed dirty is almost minimal. And with regular practice, this feeling will completely disappear.
Do not alternate between anal and vaginal sex. The difference microflora can lead to various diseases. After anal sex go to the shower, and then go to the traditional affection.
Tip 2: How to relax before sex
Intimate relationships - an integral part of the life of many modern couples. For some, sex is becoming a way to get to know yourself and your partner better, to feel confidence and to become closer not only physically, but also emotionally. However, only those who are completely relaxed can fully relax in bed.
You will need
- - beautiful underwear;
- - feather, puff or tassel;
- - massage oil / cream;
- - nice music
The liberated person will be able to get maximum pleasure from intimacy. With such a girlfriend, the partner will feel cozy and comfortable, and will try to please her in every way. To fully surrender to the process, you need to relax before sex.
Tune in the right way will help your favorite music and beautiful underwear. Just get dressed, listen to several tracks, meditate or, on the contrary, actively move. This will help to forget about the problems, throw out unnecessary thoughts from your head. If your partner is aware of your excitement, you can conduct a "relaxation act" together.
A long foreplay will help to relax before sex. Demonstrate your erogenous zones to your partner, unobtrusively stimulating its sensitive areas. Pay special attention to the head, neck, ears and areas behind them. If you want to extend the time of sexual games, first use flirting, touching your loved one with the help of accessories: puff, feather or soft brush. Gradually move to closer contact.
Long-term tactile contact will help to gain confidence in the partner. Ask your man to give you a light back massage. To make the touches more pleasant, use an oil or cream. In the area of the back, shoulder girdle, lower back is a lot of nerve endings. Their massaging will respond with pleasant sensations, help to relax and tune in to intimate intimacy. Some girls such a prelude is very exciting. Especially, if the partner, except hands, uses lips and tongue.
If you are just at the beginning of a relationship and you have sex for the first time, try to “postpone” it in the morning and spend the night in a confidential conversation and joint dream. Sexologists assure that the time spent together will help you to emotionally get closer to your partner and feel relaxed in his presence. Therefore, morning sex will be a logical and enjoyable start to the new day (and strong relationships).
A man can also be very worried before sex. Therefore, a long prelude will be for him the same "lifeline", as well as for you. The main thing - do not be embarrassed by your fears and try to overcome the tightness and tension with joint efforts.
Some sources of relaxation recommend drinking a glass of champagne or wine. However, remember: this method is the right way to rash actions that you can regret. Such relaxation can also negatively affect your health.